In my daughter’s eyes

submitted by: OperaDaddy

I am an opera singer. I am a daddy. I am OperaDaddy.

I know it’s not the most creative pen name ever, but what it lacks in literary flair it makes up for with its comic book superhero punchiness. Like Daredevil, or Batman, or Cher. But unlike those defenders-of-all-that-is-good, I am only a superhero to one person and one alone: My ten month old daughter, OperaGirl.

In OperaGirl’s eyes I can move mountains (toddler gates,) I can toggle day and night at will (light switch,) I can harness the power of the giant alien food-bearing machine (refrigerator,) and I have a voice like rolling thunder (I happen to think she may be onto something with that one.) She even thinks
I can make her fly when we play “airplane.”

But the truth is, I am a mere mortal. It takes me about fifteen minutes to run a mile. My love of watching baseball and drinking beer has rendered my formerly bullet-repelling abs useless. I have career anxiety. I worry about money. I forget to put the toilet seat down. I leave my dirty socks on the floor (do you think superman ever leaves his cape all balled up in the corner of his closet to get all wrinkled? I think not.) I do however, have a smokin’ hot co-star: OperaWife.

Even with all my not so super-human defects, OperaGirl still smiles at me like I just saved the day, every time I walk in the room. That kind of admiration is hard to come by, even in my profession where people applaud my job well done every time I go to work. Just two weeks ago I took the final bow on a stage that was seventy feet wide in front of a crowd of six thousand people who were on their feet, clapping and cheering for me. But as great as that feeling can be, it doesn’t hold a candle to getting just one of those million dollar smiles.

Everyone should get to be a superhero to somebody.

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9 responses to 'In my daughter’s eyes'
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Jared
August 30, 2006 at 9:05 am

‘...do you think superman ever leaves his cape all balled up in the corner of his closet to get all wrinkled?’

Of course not. That’s preposterous.

Superman’s cape doesn’t wrinkle.

Eric
August 30, 2006 at 9:23 am

Welcome to the group!

And remember that advice from The Incredibles:  “No capes!”

Eric

And if you have any CDs out there let us know so we can all hear the rolling thunder.

DavidR
August 30, 2006 at 10:20 am

Not sure where Doug gets the diversity!  Opera man, love your post.... 

Love the comment on Yankees/gay etc… I admit, I am full of Preconceptions, Preconceptions…

I was at a wedding last week and the bride is an opera conductor? (does that role even exist?).  I was asking my wife, What does these people do on a friday night?  Chat around a grand piano and sip wine and martinis in their tux while they discuss world politics?

My wife said I was a moron.

I will be going to your blog to remove my Preconeptions, Preconceptions,

David who grew up in a farming community while playing hockey in the winter and playing ball hockey in the summer.

Newbie Dad
August 30, 2006 at 3:40 pm

Welcome OperaDaddy!

Great post and blog. I like to think that my baby boy sometimes sees me as a superhero. But when it’s time to change him or nap time, he definitely sees me as a supervillain trying to inflict some horrific torture, like making him listen to opera or something. wink

JUST KIDDING! Again, welcome and look forward to reading more from you.

KC
August 31, 2006 at 11:31 am

Operaman = Adam Sandler from SNL, yes?  smile

Derek
August 31, 2006 at 2:29 pm

I am an opera singer. I am a daddy. I am OperaDaddy.

This line seems very singable… ...with a long, drawn-out, rolling thunderish “OperaDaddy” at the end. Maybe Doug could implement a podcast for your articles so we can get the full effect. grin

My two-week-old has yet to realize his hands belong to him, but once he gets to that point, maybe he’ll start making me feel superheroish.

Doug
August 31, 2006 at 2:51 pm

By golly, Derek...I think you’re on to something…

We could have OperaDaddy sing all of his articles to us!

Ryan
August 31, 2006 at 8:00 pm

Welcome Opera Daddy.  It sounds like you have your priorities straight.  Very cool.  Out of curiosity, do you play any instruments?  (beyond the voice)

By the way everyone, in thinking of audio, if you haven’t checked out http://www.audioblogger.com, it is a great find as you can add 5 minutes of audio to your blog by simply calling a phone number to post (I simply call from my cell phone to post).  It’s FREE too and it automatically posts an audio blurb on your blog once you submit something. I figured that Opera Daddy could always sing his next post like this smile or others might be interested because it is a great way to share kid stuff with family members who are not close by.  I myself am waiting to record the next time I get pulled over by a cop… oh yes, I’ll be recording.

OperaDaddy
August 31, 2006 at 11:42 pm

All right everyone, just settle down. Normally I only sing when I get paid, but, considering I am a rookie here I guess I could give you all a sneak preview. This recording is a very quick and dirty bootleg of me singing an aria from The Marriage of Figaro that I recorded with a voice memo recorder picking up the moniter signal in my dressing room. Click here to have a listen.

To answer your questions:
1. I do not yet have any cds out. If you own a record label, lets do lunch.
2. Yes opera conductors exist, although I occasionally wish they didn’t.
3. Yes I know Adam Sandler was operaman but he didn’t write a blog now did he?
4. I have played guitar, piano, violin, drums, and recorder at some point in my lifetime. None very well.

Thanks for the warm welcome!

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